EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
     ...one old love she can imagine going back
to... and one who reminds her how
     far she has come...
     ...enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her
     own... even if she never wants to and needs
to...  ...something perfect to
     wear if the employer or date of her dreams
wants to see her in an hour...
     ...a youth she's content to leave behind...
     ...a past juicy enough that she's looking
forward to retelling it in her old
     age...
     ...the realization that she is actually going
to have an old age and some
     money set aside to fund it...
     ...a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill,
and a black lace bra...  ...one
     friend who always makes her laugh... and one
who lets her cry...
     ...a good piece of furniture not previously
owned by anyone else in her
     family...
     ...eight matching plates, wine glasses with
stems, and a recipe for a meal
     that will make her guests feel honored...
...a resume that is not even
     slightest bit padded...
     ...a feeling of control over her destiny...

     EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
     ...how to fall in love without losing
herself...
     ...how to quit a job, break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without
     ruining the friendship...
     ...when to try harder... and when to walk
away...
     ...how to have a good time at a party she'd
never choose to attend...
     ...how to ask for what she wants in a way that
makes it most likely she'll
     get it...
     ...that she can't change the length of her
calves, the width of her hips, or
     the nature of her parents...
     ...that her childhood may not have been
perfect... but its over...
     ...what she would and wouldn't do for love or
more...
     ...how to live alone... even if she doesn't
like it...  ...whom she can
     trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't
take it personally...
     ..where to go... be it to her best friend's
kitchen table... or a charming
     inn in the woods... when her soul needs
soothing...  ...what she can and
     can't accomplish in a day... a month... and a
year...

Pass this on to all women you know and love!